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When everything will be fine. Rules of life Bernard Shaw: “Learn not to tell anyone anything and then everything will be fine with you. Getting old is boring, but it's the only way to live long

If you believe that you have become different. With another. That hurts. Without emotions, wet cheeks and apple juice. It just hurts. So it's light outside but dark inside. Heavy as a stone on the neck. As viscous as amber resin from the heart of a pine tree. And too disgusting. Another one against you. It's against the natural. And, of course, this is not true. After all, if you do not believe, everything is not true.
We don't believe. We turn around. We exclaim. We hate and we hate. Sorry. And we can't ask for forgiveness. We can't at all. Even when we repent, make excuses, accuse, - no, we do not ask for forgiveness. Too proud. Too stupid.
Throat is bitter. Drinking coffee freezes in the throat. It freezes and burns. Just like words burn. Words are the breath of the breeze, the movement of the lips, they are not at all material and not tangible. And the traces from themselves are burned out quite real. Right on the soul. And they sometimes weigh a ton. Especially when they fall unexpectedly and get somewhere inside. Hmm... You're so good at it. Yes, I have learned too. Is it true? Hard? Not only tough, my dear boy, it's also cruel. It dries and straightens, destroys smiles and blackens eyes. And then on the head from somewhere in the sky or from the next table, or from the heart, to which, fortunately, rigidity does not apply, like this, right on the head, awareness and regret pours out. And you stand - wet and defeated. Defeated, but not defeated and completely alive. You don't die in pain. No one dies from this pain that aches inside. You don’t die, but you don’t wipe yourself with warm words and you don’t dry it either. However, like he you. And gradually everything dries up by itself, weathering feelings. And there remains only tanned skin, covered with a crust of misunderstanding. Or thorns. Someone like.
Once a wise man said that people, instead of building bridges between themselves, build walls. So are we. We are building. Every day we add a brick of another confident mistake, or even two or three. Sometimes we destroy these walls, but not for long. Who will see? Suddenly, someone will not resist and run across to "foreign" territory? We are afraid of each other. We are afraid to get burned. We blow on the water. We make waves. We launch ships, making wishes. Someday they will reach the intended goal and fulfill everything. In the meantime ... Let's not break ourselves? Come on, won't you break yourself? Don't say anything, don't argue, don't argue, don't be stubborn. It's much easier than you thought. What we came up with. For some reason they believed. They ended up living on different planets. But in the same galaxy. And, as if The little Prince and the Little Princess (she, for sure, should have appeared with him), when there is an opportunity, we look at each other - each at his own planet, and are silent. We are waiting for one of us to give in and agree to become a satellite. And someday someone will definitely give in and agree to become one, cutting out all his pride of a celestial body with the sharp end of a neighboring star. And then everything will be fine.

1. The world is made up of slackers who want money without working and idiots who are willing to work without getting rich.
2. Dance is a vertical expression of a horizontal desire.
3. Hatred is the coward's revenge for the fear he has experienced.
4. We have no right to consume happiness without producing it.
5. An ideal husband is a man who thinks he has an ideal wife.
6. To be able to endure loneliness and enjoy it is a great gift.
7. It is not dangerous to be sincere, especially if you are also stupid.
8. Sometimes you need to make people laugh in order to distract them from their intention to hang you.
9. The biggest sin in relation to the neighbor is not hatred, but indifference; this is truly the pinnacle of inhumanity.
10. Women somehow immediately guess with whom we are ready to cheat on them. Sometimes even before it crosses our minds.
11. There is no woman who could say "goodbye" in less than thirty words.
12. It's easier to live with a passionate woman than with a boring one. True, they are sometimes strangled, but rarely abandoned.
13. Alcohol is an anesthetic that allows you to undergo an operation called "life."
14. People who do not have a sense of objective perception of reality are often called cynicism.
15. He who knows how, he does, who does not know how, he teaches others.
16. Try to get what you love, otherwise you will have to love what you got.
17. Getting old is boring, but it's the only way to live long.
18. The only lesson that can be learned from history is that people do not learn any lessons from history.
19. A newspaper is a printed organ that does not see the difference between falling off a bicycle and the collapse of civilization.
20. Democracy is balloon, which hangs over your heads and makes you stare up while other people rummage through your pockets.
21. If you have an apple and I have an apple, and if we exchange these apples, then you and I have one apple each. And if you have an idea and I have an idea, and we exchange ideas, then each of us will have two ideas.
22. Common sense and hard work compensate for your lack of talent, while you can be a genius of genius, but foolishly ruin your life.
23. Ranks and titles are invented for those whose services to the country are indisputable, but the people of this country are unknown.
24. A person is like a brick: when it is burned, it hardens.
25. Reputation is a mask that a person has to wear just like trousers or a jacket.
26. A person who believes in nothing is afraid of everything.
27. Nature does not tolerate emptiness: where people do not know the truth, they fill in the gaps with conjecture.
28. A reasonable person adapts to the world; the unreasonable tries to adapt the world to himself. Therefore, progress always depends on the unintelligent.
29. Rich people who have no convictions are more dangerous in modern society than poor women who have no morals.
30. Now that we have learned to fly through the air like birds, to swim under water like fish, we lack only one thing: to learn to live on earth like people.

Everything will be fine, the main thing is to believe!

Stop wasting time worrying!

Smile! Everything will be alright, I've asked.

Everything will be fine, because it cannot be otherwise!

Everything will be fine wherever you go!

Everything will be not just good, but much better! Necessarily! Don `t doubt!

As spring comes after winter, so joy follows sadness. Everything will be fine!

Man is the product of his thoughts. For he becomes what he thinks about most of the time!

Everything will be fine! Believe in yourself and you will get through!

Wherever you are, tell yourself: Since I'm here, then everything will be fine!

Sometimes, in some strange ways in life, everything gets better by itself!

Everything will be fine: theoretically ... logically ... deductively ... yes, in any case!

Let it be bad now, but then everything will be fine. You just need to survive, wait, and then everything will work out. Necessarily!

Everything will be fine! Live actively, think positively!

If you wake up with the thought that something good will happen today, it will.

And you know, it still will. The south wind will still blow and the spring will still conjure and the memory will turn over.

Never regret anything - everything is for the best!

When it seems to a person that everything is going wrong, something wonderful tries to enter his life.

Believe, everything will come true! Everything will be awesome!

The sun is always behind the clouds. Yes! Everything will be fine!!! No matter what...

You have to survive the rain to see a rainbow! Everything will be fine!

If you feel very bad, find someone who is worse off and help him. You will feel much better!

If you have been offended, use the magic rule of three Ps: understand, forgive, bury.

Never take revenge on anyone. All will be! We are good, but they deserve it!

Believe me, all troubles will go away ... Misfortunes also get tired, and tomorrow will be a happy day!

The train goes to the final station "Success" with all the stops: Failure, Apathy, Betrayal, Mistakes, Actions ... Success.

Everything will be as it should! Everything passes ... this too will pass ... everything will be ho-ro-sho!

Happiness is when you don't have to lie that you feel good.

A strong person is not one who is doing well. This is the one who is doing well no matter what. You are stronger than you think!

Everything that happens happens at the right time. This is the best that could be!

The end of something bad is always the beginning of something good.

Don't be sad... everything will be fine, life is full of pleasant moments!

Do not grieve and do not be sad! All the best is ahead!

Everything will be fine in the end. If it's still not good, it's not over.

Everything will be as you dream, just wait. Remember, sugar is at the bottom.

No eclipse lasts forever. Don't be discouraged, everything will be fine!

The sun in the sky is good, but the sun in the soul is more important. Take care of your sun!

Look at your problems from a different angle! Relax, everything will be fine!

Everything will be fine! And even yesterday's mistakes will do you good!

I found the mood for myself to be lucky. Yesterday was good, but today is better!

Tasks for today: stand in front of the mirror, straighten your shoulders, raise your head, smile and tell yourself: “Everything will be fine!”

Go to the "Settings" of the soul, open the "Status" folder, check the "Happy" box and forget the password!

Everything will be fine, because bad does not suit me!

Everything will be fine, because that's how I want it to be and that's how it should be!

It is important to have a person next to you who will hug and say: everything will be fine. And it's you!

No one will feel good next to you while you feel bad alone with yourself.

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George Bernard Shaw is the only person to have received both the Nobel Prize in Literature and the Academy Award. An outstanding critic of his time and the most famous - after Shakespeare - playwright who wrote in English.

When receiving the Nobel Prize, he, with his usual wit, called this event "a token of gratitude for the relief that he brought to the world by not publishing anything this year." He, like no one else, knew how to perfectly combine humor and deep observations, and his apt and accurate quotes confirm the depth of his worldview:

  1. Now that we have learned to fly through the air like birds, to swim under water like fish, we lack only one thing: to learn how to live on earth like people.
  2. Learned to speak - it means he grew up, learned to be silent - it means he grew wiser.
  3. Try to get what you love, otherwise you will have to love what you got.
  4. When reading a biography, remember that the truth is never fit to be published.
  5. An ideal husband is a man who thinks he has an ideal wife.
  6. Revolutions have never lightened the burden of tyranny; they only shifted this burden from one shoulder to another.
  7. The newspaper is a printed organ that does not see the difference between falling off a bicycle and the collapse of civilization.
  8. Obscenity can be found in any book, with the exception of a telephone book.
  9. If you ever find it while chasing happiness, then, like an old woman looking for her glasses, you will find that happiness was always on your nose.
  10. Love men. They really need your love. Even if they never admit it. Behind every great man there is always a woman who believed in him. And she truly loved.
  11. Most of all, people are interested in what does not concern them at all.
  12. If my neighbor beats his wife every day, and I never, then statistically we both beat our wife every other day.
  13. If you start with self-sacrifice for the sake of those you love, then you will end up hating those to whom you have sacrificed yourself.
  14. The greatest sin in relation to one's neighbor is not hatred, but indifference; this is truly the pinnacle of inhumanity.
  15. We have no right to consume happiness without producing it.
  16. To be able to endure loneliness and enjoy it is a great gift.
  17. It is not dangerous to be sincere, especially if you are also stupid.
  18. People who know how to have fun don't have money, and people who have money don't know how to have fun.
  19. Sometimes you have to make people laugh to distract them from their intention to hang you.
  20. Martyrdom is the only way to become famous without any ability.
  21. Hatred is the coward's revenge for the fear he has experienced.
  22. The thief is not the one who steals, but the one who is caught.
  23. Those who know how - do, those who do not know - teaches others.
  24. Getting old is boring, but it's the only way to live long.
  25. The only lesson that can be learned from history is that people do not learn any lessons from history.
  26. If you have an apple and I have an apple, and we exchange these apples, then you and I have one apple each. And if you have an idea and I have an idea, and we exchange them, then each of us will have two ideas.
  27. My fame grew with each of my failures.
  28. A person is like a brick: when it burns, it hardens.
  29. The only one who acted sensibly was my tailor. He measured me again every time he saw me, while everyone else came up to me with old measurements, expecting me to match them.
  30. Life is not about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.
  31. My way of joking is to tell the truth. There is nothing funnier in the world.
  32. The secret of success is to arouse indignation in as many people as possible.

Of course everything will be fine. We are sure of it. We pronounce such a desire on birthdays and under New Year. We are so encouraging each other in case of failure. Songs with the phrase "Tomorrow everything will be fine" become our real hits, which everyone knows by heart. And we are confident that this cherished dream will come true. Only life shows something else: we are in conflict with loved ones, we feel hostility and suffer from this, we are nervous and angry, we receive a small salary, and the country is getting worse and worse. And then we ask in disappointment: when will everything be fine? And how much longer to wait until this coveted "good"?

I hope that everything will be fine - why do our hopes not come true?
What needs to be done to make everything really good tomorrow?
When will everything finally be okay for each of us?

The other day I was lucky to be at the concert of the Okean Elzy group in Kyiv. From the upper sector, there was a beautiful view not only of the stage, but of the entire Olimpiysky stadium, one glance was enough to see - here it is, a real "full house". Tens of thousands of happy people filled the stands and the entire field - they danced and shouted to the famous songs, applauded and organized flash mobs. Each song met warmly, but one - especially.

This refrain was sung by the entire stadium, thousands of hands went up either to the beat of the music, or in a kind of prayer for Ukraine. Looking around and back, I noticed thousands of eyes and many had tears in them, there were also people who wept uncontrollably. All the spectators, as one, at that moment dreamed and hoped that the time would finally come when everything would be fine for each of us. This song, always perceived by us as personal, this time concerned the general - the desire that tomorrow everything will be fine, is carried out throughout the country, because today we have a real civil war going on.

The concert ended, everyone went home with a cheerful mood. Many people sang "everything will be good" as they walked along the avenues and streets. But what's next? Has the situation changed in the country, in their families, for them personally the next day? No. Tomorrow came the same as usual. The war continued without even thinking of changing - the news every day reported the deaths of both civilians and military. I do not think that someone has radically changed his life and began to feel happier. How can this be? Why such a bright and simple desire to everything was fine, does not come true? And even vice versa - everything is only getting worse?

I want everything to be good - we are looking for the roots of desires

Belief in a brighter future, in the fact that "tomorrow everything will be fine" is typical for the majority of our compatriots. It seems that this is just a cliche picked up by someone sometime and spread because of the beautiful sound. But it's much more complicated...

Phrase " Everything will be fine even if..."actually carries huge layers that reflect our mentality, which has been formed over millennia. Difficult weather conditions, unfriendly forest-steppe mixed with swamps and mountains, many wild animals and an even greater number of enemy nomadic tribes - under the pressure of all this, a a unique mental superstructure that is not found anywhere else in the world.We could only survive by working closely with each other, supporting the weak, providing help to those in need.Years ago, if a house burned to the ground, its owner could only hope for those who lived nearby, in the same village, to those who tomorrow could find themselves in the same situation.Something has always pushed us to do a good deed to someone who has suffered, to someone who is weak, who needs help. it will be good, I believe in it..." the neighbors of the victim cheered hundreds of years ago, and everyone helped - some with bread, some with a corner in their house, some with clothes. And all this is not built on visual pity and compassion nii, as in Western culture, but on the urethral feeling of mercy, life's truth and justice.

Although outwardly visual compassion and urethral mercy very similar, in fact they have a difference. The spectator often, without realizing it, substitutes concepts, confuses where good and evil are, and does "good" deeds, which ultimately lead to a deplorable result. A simple example: humanitarian aid for the poor countries of Africa - flooding African countries with balloon medicines, clothing and food, Western countries have achieved a very bad result: instead of development, Africans demand new portions of humanitarian aid.

Urethral mercy does not involve zealous help to everyone, but only to those who really need it. We, with our mentality, never try to just feed a person and forget about him (read: pay off), but, on the contrary, we have an inner desire to show deeper help, for example, give a fishing rod and teach how to fish. And this is manifested in everything, in our schools it is customary to pull up those who are lagging behind, at work - to help those who cannot cope. "Of course, everything will be fine," we encourage the other, showing participation in his life and fate.

Our society was formed in such a way that at the head of the pack there was always a urethral person who took responsibility for everyone. By nature, such a person has a whole range of characteristics that allow him to perform his role correctly and without flaw. Given to society, its best properties live in the heart of each of our people.

Unfortunately, in the best manifestations of our mentality there are traps for consciousness that distort reality, deprive us of the right thoughts and actions. And one of them is the desire "everything will be fine tomorrow." Being muscularly patient, we seem to be stuck in a place where there is no way out. And instead of acting, we just expect everything to be fine. Forgetting that for this well something needs to be done. And the more good you want, the more you need to work.

The feeling that in the event of a tragedy we will definitely be helped deprives each of us of personal responsibility. We all subconsciously expect that a strong person (leader) will come and do something that will save us, change everything in the world. We expect that the whole society will change, and we - following - will definitely catch up. The terrible situation is that, having shifted responsibility to another, we ourselves continue to do things that lead to exactly the opposite result than "everything will be fine tomorrow":

  • we do not understand our own children, raising them on a whim, which is how we lose a whole generation of young people, simply simply not understanding them;
  • we have conflicts in families and the number of divorces is growing so much that it exceeds the number of marriages;
  • we are dissatisfied with our work, our wealth;
  • we take and give bribes, even at the smallest level, for example, to a doctor or a teacher, thereby increasing corruption in the country;
  • we get angry and offended, scream and hysteria, sit in our fears and depressions...

And we are looking for an explanation for all this not in ourselves, in our actions, but in someone else. The partner is to blame for the couple, the teachers are to blame for the gaps in the educational system, the doctors are to blame for the poor health care, the president, corrupt officials or people of a different nationality are to blame for the situation in the country. And so on and so forth. Wherever you look - someone is to blame, and not I. And I - this is the same husband, father, doctor, teacher, policeman, politician, a common person who blames everyone around, but not himself. And he waits, waits for everything to change and then everything will be fine tomorrow. It simply cannot be otherwise. But the mental superstructure assumed the actions of the entire flock for the good of the flock, and not just the expectation of help.

Collectivist thinking does not allow us to look at the world for real, but he has changed a lot. The new, skin era dictates its own rules to us, and they are in personal responsibility for everything around. You can't expect others to change if you don't change yourself. You cannot expect that everything will be necessarily good, because without your own action, this will definitely not happen. Moreover, while we wait, others act and benefit from our naivety and patience.

What to do so that everything is really good tomorrow

So, in order to change the world around you, you need to think about what I can do for everyone. As practice shows, not all actions, even with the best intentions, help to make everything go well. This is due to the fact that often we simply do not know what action to take correctly. The roots of our desires are hidden from us in the subconscious, and we are full of our rationalizations and are often mistaken.

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