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Mystery calls her mother-in-law. Her mother-in-law calls my mother-in-law mom. Love for grandma

My sister Please write a family story in French. If you need a basis, then here in Russian:

My family is small. There are four of us: dad, mom, my sister and me. I am 11 years old. My sister is 15. My mother is 36, and my father is 39. My mother's name is Tanya. And dad Dmitry. My sister's name is Masha. My mom is a housewife and my dad fixes cars.

Please, please, please.

A girl moves somewhere with someone (there is no mother, by the way, her mother was a very strong witch, but this is found out at the end) at school, on the first day she meets three girls (witches), it turns out that she is also a witch, and together they spend some kind of blue rites. There is also some kind of saleswoman who helps them (witch or not, I don’t know, but she definitely helps them all) at about the end they leave her or she them (but I don’t remember exactly) ... In short, they start to fight against each other, she starts to lose, she understands that her mother is also a witch and always kept in touch with her, well, you know, then she got away with them (they lost their strength ... Blah blah blah) and she lives far away ...
The end

I wrote an essay, and I need you to check it with me and advise me.

My mother gave me a teddy bear on March 8 last year. As soon as I saw her, I immediately fell in love with her. And on the same day I gave her the name Vatrushka, and if you call it affectionately, Vatrushechka.

Cheesecake size is not large, but very cute. Her muzzle is always with a joyful grin. Little pink nose. The eyes of Vatrushechka are affectionate. On the paws are pads with pink hearts. And her ears are the same with pink hearts.

Cheesecake is my most tender plush girlfriend. And I can tell her all my secrets, because I know that she will not tell anyone.

What needs to be crossed out, described in more detail, in short, write what is missing here!

Our hunting dog, Laika, came to us from the banks of the Biya, and in honor of this Siberian river we named it the Biya. But soon this Biya for some reason we have

turned into Byushka, everyone began to call Byushka Vyushka.

We did not hunt much with her, but she served us well as a watchman. You will go hunting, and be sure: Vyushka will not let someone else in.

This Vyushka is a cheerful dog, everyone likes it: ears like horns, a tail with a ring, white teeth like garlic. She got two bones from dinner. Receiving a gift, Vyushka unfolded the ring of her tail and lowered it down with a log. For her, this meant anxiety and the beginning of the vigilance necessary for protection - it is known that in nature there are many hunters on bones. With her tail down, Vyushka went out onto the grass-ant and took up one bone, while she put the other next to her.

Then, out of nowhere, magpies: lope, lope! - and to the very nose of the dog. When Vyushka turned her head to one - grab it! another magpie on the other side grab! - and took away the bone.

It was late autumn, and the magpies hatching this summer were quite mature. They stayed here with the whole brood, in seven pieces, and from their parents they learned all the secrets of theft. Very quickly they pecked at the stolen bone and, without thinking twice, were going to take the second one from the dog.

They say that the family has its black sheep, the same happened in the magpie family. Of the seven, forty-one came out not exactly stupid, but somehow with a leap and with pollen in her head. Now it was the same: all six forty launched a correct attack, in a large semicircle, looking at each other, and only one Upstart galloped foolishly.

- Tra-ta-ta-ta-ta! all the magpies chirped.

This meant to them:

- Jump back, jump as it should, as the whole magpie society needs!

- Tra-la-la-la-la! - answered the Upstart.

This meant to her:

- Download as you need, and I - as I myself want.

So, at her own peril and risk, Upstart jumped up to Vyushka herself in the expectation that Vyushka, stupid, would rush at her, throw away the bone, but she would contrive and take the bone away.

Vyushka, however, understood the Upstart’s plan well and not only did not rush at her, but, noticing the Upstart with a slanting eye, she freed the bone and looked in the opposite direction, where in a regular semicircle, as if reluctantly – lope! and think - six smart magpies were advancing.

That moment, when View turned her head away, Upstart took advantage of her attack. She grabbed the bone and even managed to turn in the other direction, managed to hit the ground with her wings, raise dust from under the grass-ant.

And if only one more moment to rise into the air, if only one moment! That's just, if only the magpie would rise, as Vyushka grabbed the tail and the bone fell out.

The upstart escaped, but the entire rainbow long magpie tail remained in Vyushka's teeth and stuck out of her mouth like a long sharp dagger.

Has anyone seen a magpie without a tail? It is hard to even imagine what this brilliant, motley and agile egg thief turns into if her tail is cut off. It happens that mischievous village boys will catch a horsefly, stick a straw and let this big strong fly fly with such a long tail - terrible disgusting! Well, so, this is a fly with a tail, and here - a magpie without a tail; whoever was surprised at a fly with a tail will be even more surprised at a magpie without a tail. Then nothing of the magpie remains in this bird, and you will never recognize in it not only a magpie, but also some kind of bird: it is just a motley ball with a head.

Tailless Upstart sat down on the nearest tree, all the other six magpies flew towards her. And it was evident from all the chirping of the magpie, all the fuss, that there is no greater shame in the magpie's life than to lose a magpie's tail. question: why did the story that Privshin told end in this way?

Getting married means bringing a lot of new things into your life.

© vedmochka.com And far from the last place in this "parade of novelty" is occupied by relationships with new relatives. Well, if the newlyweds have the opportunity to live separately, but if not?

And if not, then you will have to go out to the common kitchen every day and somehow contact the parents of your loved one. How to call them: "mom" and "dad"? Or officially: by name and patronymic? With fathers-in-law, everything is easier: men in this situation show more understanding and generosity. But with the mother-in-law on this basis, the first grievances may arise. So what to do? Suddenly, for no reason at all, call a “mother” in general a stranger to you? And where is the guarantee that she wants it? What if she prefers to keep a reasonable distance and such treatment will also jar her? Stop at a cool "Marya Ivanovna" and relax? But will it not become an eternal thorn in the relationship? What to do?!

Put the problem on your husband's shoulders. And do it before the wedding. Ask him to turn to his mother with something like this: “Mom, Olya (that is, you) is worried, does not know how to call you: “mom” or something else. What do you think?". Such a statement of the question will flatter her vanity: the girl is worried, which means that this is important for her. The first undoubted "plus" in your piggy bank of virtues. The second nuance: the decision will have to be made by her - this is another nod towards her importance. This alignment will set the woman on a wave of generosity: it is quite possible that she will wave her hand and say: “Yes, how convenient it is for her!” In this case, you get the freedom of action approved by her, call her as your heart desires. Within reason, of course!

When we get married or get married, we immediately have twice as many relatives. And they all have a name. You won't remember right away. No, well, you can’t confuse your mother-in-law with anyone! And now we'll deal with the rest ...

New relatives of the wife (bride)

mother in law is the husband's mother. For the mother-in-law - her son's wife will daughter-in-law.

father-in-law is the husband's father. For the father-in-law - his son's wife will daughter-in-law.

sister-in-law is the husband's sister. For the sister-in-law, her brother's wife will daughter-in-law.

brother-in-law is the husband's brother. For a brother-in-law, his brother's wife will daughter-in-law.

New relatives of the husband (groom)

mother-in-law is the wife's mother. For the mother-in-law, her daughter's husband will son-in-law.

Who is father-in-law

father-in-law is the wife's father. For the father-in-law, as well as for the mother-in-law, the husband of their daughter - son-in-law.

brother-in-law is the wife's brother. For the brother-in-law, the husband of his sister, as well as for the parents - son-in-law.

sister-in-law is the wife's sister. For the sister-in-law, as for the brother-in-law, their sister's husband will son-in-law.

New family ties between the parents of the bride and groom

Svatya- this is the mother of one of the spouses for the parents of the other spouse.

Matchmaker- the father of one of the spouses for the parents of the other spouse.

brother-in-law is the husband of one sister in relation to the husband of another. Any brother-in-law is also called family ties between people who are not closely related.

Who are godfathers

Qom And godfather- godfather and mother, but not for the godson, but among themselves and in relation to the parents and relatives of the godson.

Other relatives

All other relatives of your husband/wife will be called for you in the same way as for him/her. If your husband has a niece, she remains a niece for you too. And you will be her uncle's wife for her.

Her mother-in-law calls my mother-in-law mom

Love for grandma

Hello. I don’t understand how my mother-in-law bribed the love of my daughter, Sonechka, 1.5 years old. We live separately, she sees her 1-2 times a week for several hours. Yes, of course, she plays very noisily with her, runs, gives all her strength. As she herself says, then her legs and back hurt. He allows everything, carries on his hands.

BUT both I and my mother also play with Sonya, we carry it in our arms, we indulge her whims. And my mother lives with us, sees her granddaughter every day in the evenings after work. Of course, in addition to games, we need to feed the child, put him to bed, wash, etc.

So, if we are all together in one place, the child does not notice me and my mother, runs up to the mother-in-law, past us, plays only with her, literally looks into her mouth. It's disgusting. When I take her in my arms from the hands of my mother-in-law, she clings to her, cries, does not want to leave her.

When I leave and the child stays with my mom, she says she misses her, comes to the door, repeats mom. And when I leave with my mother-in-law, she doesn’t even remember me, I come back, I take it in my arms, and she cries, breaks out back to her. It's embarrassing to tears. And not only for myself, but also for another grandmother. My mother puts her whole soul into her, buys everything for her, toys, clothes. And she didn't spend a dime. Although once I bought her the cheapest rubber doll and that's it. They have the same financial opportunities, only she dresses with a needle, and my mother walks like a shobol, she helps us. As a person, the mother-in-law is a two-faced person, she puts a smile on herself and is kind of good. I believed that she was kind the first year, until the problem touched us. And she behaved very ugly.

How should I deal with this situation? And how to correct the attitude of the child to the mother-in-law in the future?

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